Grieving the loss Week 128: Find A Supportive Friend

Throughout life, our needs are in constant motion. In our time of grief, we need more support and encouragement than they needed in the past. Those of us who see ourselves as “givers”  do not know how to sit back and receive. We may not even recognize what friends can offer.

An old proverb says: A wealthy man is the one who has five friends.  Maybe this list shows why that may be true. 

Accept us as we are

Fun to Be With

Does not try to fix our problems

Listens without correcting or interrupting

Respects clear boundaries

Open to honest communication and allows differing points of view.

Not jealous of other friendships

Give and receive time, attention, and help when needed

Do not take offense if the advice is not accepted

Open to feedback